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Social media: A digital drawing-board where people create, consume and comment

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Social media is a vast emotional stage where we curate identity, archive memories, and chase connection in real time. It can amplify joy, spark inspiration, and build communities. Use it as a tool, not a measure of self-worth. Scroll consciously. Post intentionally. Live deeply offline.

Social media has become an expansive, highly expressive space—almost a modern psychological landscape where emotions and thoughts are perceived, projected, shaped, and validated. People aren’t only posting what they like or what they want to curate; they’re also using these platforms as portals for feelings. As emotions come and go, many choose to document them—sometimes for the audience, but often for themselves.

For many users, this is about preserving moments: memories stored as stories, videos, and posts. For others, it becomes something more intentional—an online archive, a memory library, a kind of digital journal. In that sense, social media can function as a personal time capsule: a place to revisit earlier versions of oneself, track shifts in personality, and notice the phases of life one has moved through.

Social media is a digital theatre where everyone has a spotlight and a script. Some use it to heal, learn, and build; others use it to prove, compare, and cope. The platform isn’t the problem—our unconscious use is. Create more than you consume. Connect more than you impress.

Another compelling facet of social media today is identity—fluid, evolving, and endlessly editable. In the online sphere, people are not confined to a single profile picture, a fixed “status,” or one consistent way of presenting themselves. They want the freedom to experiment: to express different moods, aesthetics, ideas, and versions of self across formats and features. Music, captions, hashtags, mentions, and collaborations aren’t just add-ons; they become tools of self-expression, shaping how a moment feels and how a person is perceived.

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In essence, social media is a space of content and expression. People consume and create, react and respond, comment and interpret—and this entire cycle is deeply driven by how we think and feel. Users “emotify” online: they translate emotions into images, words, symbols, and performances. But it’s also important to notice that social media allows individuals to curate a version of reality. People can share what they choose, and viewers may never fully know what lies outside the frame.

This aligns closely with Erving Goffman’s theory of self-presentation, which describes social interaction as a kind of theatre: individuals manage impressions and “perform” roles to influence how others see them. Social media fits neatly into this lens. Often, what gets displayed is the “front stage”—the polished, intentional self—while the private, unfiltered self stays “back stage,” out of view.

Among the most alluring elements of social media are visual storytelling, aesthetics, and validation. The user becomes the narrator, selecting the stories they want to tell and the way they want them to be seen. Validation—through likes, comments, and shares—plays a powerful role here. Sometimes it offers genuine upliftment: it can motivate, comfort, and create a sense of belonging. Yet it is also a double-edged sword. The same mechanisms can intensify comparison, foster anxiety, and gradually build a psychological dependency on external approval.

In many ways, social media makes the mind visible. It offers a digital stage for storytelling, connection, and memory-making. At the same time, it is saturated with subjectivity. No two people experience it in the same way—their reasons for joining differ, their relationship with attention differs, and their perception of what they see differs. That is why mindfulness matters: so the line between authentic feeling and performative emotion doesn’t blur, and deep introspection isn’t replaced by the hunger for instant reaction.

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Drishyaa Duggal
Drishyaa Duggal
Drishyaa Duggal is a distinguished Cyberpsychology Evangelist whose expertise spans the psychological dimensions of technology, social media, and artificial intelligence. As a six-time TEDx speaker and regular presenter at the International Conference on Cyberlaw, Cybercrime and Cybersecurity, she has established herself as a leading voice in understanding digital behavior. The views expressed are her own.

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